Can A Girl With Love Handles Accept Her Surplus Tummy

Straight answer? Depends on the girl. Fashion and image conscious answer? Not a chance in hell. Women, as encouraged by the fashion industry are nudged to be more look-conscious than the opposite sex. The conspiracy, as some not-so-slim women shoppers put it, begins at the clothes racks in shopping malls. The hip-hugging jeans, the tight sweaters, the skin revealing and form-showing motif.

Either a girl with love handles stay with her excess tummy and wince at herself everyday in the mirror, or she finds ways to "overcome" it. Overcoming is not the same as acceptance. Overcoming "it," for some, takes the form of stages.

Denial--If you were slim and agile and unselfconscious of the figure you took for granted, and then suddenly bloated up, the denial stance is understandable. Either you given in and live with the bulges in some passive-aggressive stance, or, something else sets in.

Anger--The nerve of fate to dish out such a thing on you, and around your midsection at that, marking off certain show-off clothes on your closet as unwearables. Either you rationalize your laziness and not jump into diet fads and a sudden non-rush to the gym, or your anger fuels your discontent and you research love handle loss how-to's. And then you discover you have to change your eating and lifestyle habits.

Depression--This hits when you are disappointed at yourself for not sticking to the diet, at not living up to weight-expectations after a certain period, at the image of you in the mirror and the clothes you still cannot wear. People unsatisfied with how they look to experience this. A girl with love handles is not exception.

Acceptance--For some women, acceptance is really not acceptance, but really a laziness to try harder to find a solution or a plain giving up. The anger remains, but is mute, and the depression must have forced you to re-evaluate how important it is for you to lose that love handle. You've lost your steam to struggle, or you've come to embrace and love your tummy bulge, or as with some women, learned to ignore it.

So, can a girl with love handles accept her surplus tummy? Yes. But as with most things in life, you have to pay the price.

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